In high school and not interested in dating
There is this weird assumption that people who don't date have been "burned" before in relationships, and while that may be true for some people, it isn't true for all of us non-daters. If anything, that's one more reason not to throw myself into the dating pool: I want to make sure whoever I do eventually date, should I decide to, is as nice as people I've dated in the past.And besides, for those non-daters who have been burned, I'm pretty sure the last thing they want is to share it with everyone who asks.Maybe because I have friends that are so awesome that I've never felt like a third wheel, but also because I don't mind taking my time.Everything doesn't have to happen for me in the next five years, or even the next fifteen. A lesson I've learned in the murky field of dating in my twenties: if you're not attracted to someone on the first date, you are probably not going to change your mind. For both of your sakes, just drop it before it gets messy.Really, I could not be happier for my friends who have found the person they belong with.
Having some sort of weird dating agenda would just suck all the fun out of it. I think we all have plenty of people in the world that we would be happy with.
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I have worked hard for the things I've wanted to make of myself, and being able to make snap decisions that I knew wouldn't drastically affect another person has been crucial to every little success.
And as archaic as this sounds, I can't date people I don't see myself marrying. I'm just simply not attracted to people I don't see a future with, and right now I'm at a place in my life where I'm not ready to commit to anyone anyway.