Dating over the years
Or is my bf just humoring me telling me the bare minimum to keep me here.Is he postponing proposals to keep me busy and continue leading me on that it was coming...It will hurt like hell to break things up, and you will question absolutely everything you've ever felt or believed in, but in time, you'll get better, and realize you have a life to live and can't be wasting your time on someone who doesn't love you the way you deserve to be loved. He followed me when I moved and we got back together (although I sometimes want to kick myself now for doing that) but I gave in. Now I'm at the point where I need a commitment (i.e.He might be a great man (as I still think mine was), but you deserve to have a marriage and a family, and if he can't produce that, then it's better to let it go. I love this man and we have pets together and he is really good to me but for whatever reason there is a block over this issue. Marriage) but I don't think it's gonna happen and I'm tired of forcing the issue cuz it's losing any honesty/purity that it could have had if he proposed w/o me nagging them. Or do I 'suck it up' and resent him for the rest of my life... Even to this day- he swears that he wants to marry me but he wants the 'perfect ring' or the 'perfect timing'.I see my single girlfriends dating but they're all douchebags.Do I leave a good guy who I know loves me but cannot give me something I need or do just keep soldiering on and faking it....I've brought the issue up more than a few times and the last time we got into a heated argument that caused him to leave for a couple days.
Cuz this mindfuck that I'm going through is legit and making me hate a really good man.
I know by your man wanting to Marry you it makes you feel complete loved and secure,unless anyone has been where you are they cant really quote hey x Ask him will you Marry me this summer a little wedding and see what he says ,if you dont ask you dont get and ask him for a striaght answer ?
I ended a 9yr relationship with a guy that was painfully obvious was going to go nowhere!!
He wanted a room-mate, companion and someone to help pay his household bills..attitude was why buy the cow when you get it for free!!
I moved out....moved to another state 800 miles away and purchased my own home... He has committment issues and will never marry you. I have also been dating the same man for over 10years. Ladies who want marriage shouldn't lower their expectations.