Dating multiple women to find a wife
And when they do pick one, they are hoping that they chose the best candidate. Then they try to change the "candidate." If you have never done this…and I'm not asking you to answer this question. I know you're right, I have seen women do that.
So why shouldn't we be afforded the same opportunity? But have you never, ever taken a guy for a ride just because you can and all along had your mind made up that he is not the one? Most of the time women do that because of their experiences.
Let me clear some air before we continue with this, which is undoubtedly the douchiest post I've written yet.
I haven't dated just one girl at a time for over a year. But if you want to do it in New York, I can offer some guidelines and pointers.
I think you have plenty of time to get to know each one and figure out what you like and what you don't like. But there is an obvious double-standard here and double-standards are bull - I make my own rules. Men don't tell all of their business so why should we?
Also, just because you are dating more than one man, does it automatically mean you are having sex with all of them? I am not promoting hoeing, just seeing what options there are.
However, when he thinks that he is the only candidate and there is no competition, he will think you have nothing else to do but to wait for him, so he won’t make you a priority and it will show in his behavior.
Men don’t like it when women date multiple men because if you are not sleeping with him, he will feel chumped because he’ll assume you are sleeping with the other guy.
However, just because we know who we want doesn’t mean we are going to get who we want.Women can try to make the argument that men date multiple women all the time, but men only do this when we are out to ‘play’ - we don’t do this when we are looking for ‘the one’.When we are looking to settle down, we will invest all of our time and efforts into that one special woman.I didn’t really understand what he meant back then, but that saying is crystal clear to me now. No matter how much we don’t like it and don’t want to admit it, we as women are held to a higher standard than men.We are expected to be pure and virginal, yet perform like a porn star for them in the bedroom. However, if both parties have not agreed to be exclusive, then neither party should expect exclusivity from the other.