Dating an uncool guy
I would, however, wait for him to set up the next date. If some chick puts me on the spot about about not showing her more attention then I know it is time to hit the "eject" button.
And, also, maybe dial back on the texting/communication that you initiate. You could ghost him, but if he's a seasoned dater, ghosting will simply indicate to him that you're no longer interested/met someone else and he'll never follow up. That way you can find out what his true motives are. The fact is, this op has a predetermined set of expectations that she wants to impose on this guy.
I really like him & would like to see him more than once a week.
And really, I would like him to WANT to see me more than once a week, or give the impression that he wants to see me at all lol.
Also this statement:"I'm down to keep this thing going if you are :)"..a little vague. Passive's head is truly in the clouds, he could've misunderstood that. If he's just a passive guy and is really into you but can't express his feelings very well, sleeping with him will make him comfortable enough in the relationship to do that. Love your comment :) I agree that it's a two way street. It sounds like the op is just trying to find something to bitch about. The only way the op can be taken seriously is if she is dating a dude with one or more of the following problems: Honestly, if any of that is true then the op is better off without this guy. She wants him calling and texting her, sharing his feelings, and all that crap.
Would you want to be the date/ event planner for the rest of your relationship? But from what I'm reading, he's just happy to go out with an eager, interested girl.I don't want to "play games" and just stop initiating stuff and see what happens, but is that my only option here?Or am I wearing my rose colored glasses and he's actually not that interested?He then got irritated and said that it was silly to plan dates in advance, because he's a passive guy, blah blah (what bullshit)The current one is, like yours, a bad texter but has asked me out twice.Between dates he's also kept me wondering if he's still interested as he almost never texts. I'll give you a piece of advice on dating a passive guy.